In the 21st century, there is still some major issues dealing with mankind that must be dealt with, immediately. Diaper bags for men! Yes, a void still exists for those of use who need to carry around diapers, wipes, bottles, diaper rash cream and all the other hundreds of items that end up accumulating in the depths of the all-important diaper bag.
Out of all the purchases that you, as a father will make, this one most directly impacts your life. Retailers and manufacturers are finally starting to wise up to the market need, but for my money I still think there can be some improvements. Several years ago I ended up with a basic Eddie Bauer bag. It works great, although a little big for a toddler. Just check out Diaperbags.com for a full assortment from Camo to cliche, you can find many options. Personally, I've never been a fan of the one-shoulder diaper bag, it always seems to fall off and if you throw it across your shoulders, it will weigh you down and end up causing back issues. With my next child, I'm going go with my favorite backpack.
Here is my reasoning:
1) Less back pain-(you're already going to have a little considering the carrying and bending over changing diapers that you will have to do.)
2) Durable-I still have one that is great condition that is over 10 years old.
3) Lots of pockets and space-I have a place to carry my laptop, camera, pens/pencils, toys, wipes, diapers, etc. If you're worried about bottles, then think about this: get a separate insulated cooler so if they do leak, which they inevitably do, then it is contained, plus you can throw a freezer pack in if you want to keep it extra cool.
4) Multipurpose-can use on that day hike with buddies, throw in the car on trips, take a bike ride with the little one and not worry about an awkward diaper shoulder strap.
5) It doesn't scream 'look at the Dad!'-Now, I don't really care about this one, because let's be honest, if I'm walking through the mall or the park pushing a stroller and a toddler in tow, then it is fairly obvious what my role happens to be.
All this aside, diaper bags are really just another way for designers and retailers to capitalize on the 'baby crazy' that overcomes all of us in those early years. There is no special function or need that they fill. Need a place to put the dirty diapers? Carry some plastic grocery bags, they are free. Need a portable changing pad? An old, soft blanket will do the trick, the ones that are in most diaper bags aren't really comfortable, they are just a barrier between your child and the floor.
So next time you think you need that designer bag for dads, ask yourself what happens to this after my child is potty trained? Then ask yourself what actually works best for you? Obviously, I think a backpack with a few cheap additions is much more functional and you don't have to go for the 'daddy-camo' style. What kind of bag do you like? Any suggestions?
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As I am a soon to be father who is expecting his first in October, my wife and I just had the "man bag" discussion last night. Then I fall upon your post today, coincidence? Anyway I will have to check out your suggestions and sites you picked out. Your reasoning for a backpack makes perfect sense, I will be going in that direction. I wanted to share with you that I recently created a website over at www.justdaddys.net that is a place where fathers both new and veteran can come and trade thoughts, advice, and stories. Its still very new and only a small community. I would love to have someone like you get in on the ground and get involved as a community leader and resource. If you have any questions or would like to email me please feel free. Thanks, and see you on the boards.
Jason
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I use the DiaperDude bag. They are messanger style that looks cool! What is happening at www.justdaddys.net ? I just launched an affiliate program for SafetyTat-temporary safety tattoo for kids. check them out: www.performance-based.com/affiliate_programs/child/safety/tattoo/temporary_safety_tattoo.html
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